Thought for the Day - 16/11/97
Last
year's Stornaway bullying related suicide was back in our Sunday
newspapers again, when it was suggested that "there are still
thousands of pupils being bullied in Scottish schools", despite
the fact that "research shows that bullied children suffer
permanent damage to their self-esteem, and fail to reach their full
potential".
But
isn't bullying just an everyday expression of power imposed by
force, taking self-gratification, disregarding the pain of others, a
reflection in school of what is part of the nature of the world, an
adult world, seen not only in that army of Scottish teachers who for
so many years exercised their power over the classroom by means of a
strap?
We
recognise the reality of physical force (we have our military - as
does Saddam, though he is an example of our understanding of a
bully), empowerment by use of fear.
For
the real power of physical force is over the emotions, which is why
physical strength is not an absolute bully necessity. They can aim
to cause pain by attacking areas of emotional insecurity,
emotional bullying attacking difference, and if we see this
as bad for our society we really must speak up against it.
Muhammad
said: "The most excellent jihad is to speak the truth in the
face of a tyrannical ruler."
Our
public opinions so often justify disregard for the fate of "our
opponents", however, opposed for whatever difference, by class,
racism, sexism, nationalism and other assorted 'isms' - and
"Nationalism means helping your people in unjust causes"
said the Prophet.
Admittedly,
our politicians do now manage to refrain from drawn swords across
the chamber, and to keep their abuse within limits. But we control
our politicians - only society can control bully power. Individual
bullies can only rule when they have the active support of a few,
but the tacit support of too many.
"If
anyone walks with an oppressor to strengthen him, knowing that he is
an oppressor, he has gone forth from Islam." said Muhammad, and
also "As you are, so you will have rulers over you."
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